Benjamin Cantor-Stone '07

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  • Brenna Ross
    Brenna: If you could say just your name, where you currently live, and your class year?
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone & Brenna Ross
    Benjamin: All right. My name is Benjamin Cantor-Stone. Everyone calls me Benjie. I currently live in Minneapolis, Minnesota and I am a member of the class of 2007, although I guess it’s really 7.5 but whatever. I guess I should start talking about just whatever is here?Brenna: Yeah, if there’s any question that strikes your fancy...
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Sure. Well, growing up I thought I was going to go to college on the east coast ‘cause that’s where most of the people in my family went. My parents met at Yale, so I felt kind of pressured to try that out so I applied early decision to Yale and I was eventually rejected so I naturally pursued alternatives and I’d had two people from my high school who had gone to Grinnell. And I was- The summer after my friend Rebecca’s first year, she and I were in a play together and I asked her, “So how’s college in the cornfields?” and she says, “It’s great.” So, I was just struck by how strongly she felt about it and did some research, and was impressed and eventually said, “OK, I might as well apply, see what happens,” and I get in and they start throwing money at me, like they do a lot of people, and it just seemed fairly logical.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: So ultimately the decision was between following the east coast family tradition of going to the east coast, so it was either Grinnell or Brandeis, and I said, “Well, Grinnell’s looking a lot better.” And my dad thought I was crazy ‘cause I’d never even visited the campus so basically what we did is we blew all our frequent flyer miles and visited campus. It was a bit of a culture shock, initially, ‘cause I grew up in Houston which is a very large, very diverse city. We get to the Des Moines airport and my dad asks me, “so, what’s different here?” and I say, “I see white people,” ‘cause it’s just a lot pastier here, I guess. But, y’know, whatever.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: So I visited the campus and did- attended a couple lectures and had a couple lectures in the Classics department. One in the Comp Sci department, knew exactly what was going on in the Classics department, even answered a couple questions that- by the professor, which was very satisfying. No idea in the Comp Sci department but, y’know, one of my high school friends invited me to that so I took her word at it, was very impressed.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: And I did Dag. That was my.. I got dragged into a Dag fight, and at another student group meeting that is no longer - the student group I don’t think is here anymore, it was a live action role playing group. That was where I first met Willie who I am currently engaged to, so, that’s something for certain. So, it just worked out, and that’s how I wound up at Grinnell.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: In terms of an effect... The other funny part was trying to choose my.. my tutorial prof and that took a while. I basically polled.. I talked to my high school friends who were here and they basically polled their friends and suddenly I had this barrage of emails from Grinnell addresses saying, "Oh, take tutorial with this professor!" "Take tutorial with this professor!" "Take tutorial with that professor!" I looked ‘em all over and it made a lot of sense but then this one class just stood out: Primitive Skills in the Modern World, and I had always been interested in old things. I was one of those kids that never grew out of his dinosaur phase, and I was ver- I had tried to make, to recreate prehistoric technology on my own in the past and I’d always failed and ended up injuring myself so I was like, “Why don’t I do this? I’m an Eagle Scout, I can do this.”
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: So I signed up for Primitive Skills in the Modern World with John Whittaker, and I have never looked back since. I actually just got my degree in Heritage Management, basically a professional degree in archeology, and I gotta give John Whittaker credit for that ‘cause he’s just an amazing role model. A.. strange, but amazing. Well, I guess that’s what made him a good role model for me.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Best memory from tutorial was, a couple weeks into the semester, we were just getting used to the whole 8 AM classes thing. Class was just- we were just all walking into the archeology lab like, “Eeeuuuuuugh," y'know, early morning, "uuuuuh.” You know how it is. And, this wonderful smell is just coming from the lab and we get in there and Professor Whittaker has this saucepan over the lab burner and is like, “Good morning everyone. Who wants chestnuts?” and we’re just like, “How can you be this chipper?” But y’know, they were fresh roasted chestnuts so we didn’t really complain and they were quite good.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Learned a lot. One point in the semester we did a weekend-long field trip to the Cahokia Mounds for a... an Atlatl meet. A-T-L-A-T-L. It’s one of Professor Whittaker’s things, and I still do it. I actually made my own Atlatl when I was in high school and Professor Whittaker helped me fix it so it worked better. Eventually taught me how to make spears and spear points, did guided senior research with him on Native American glue recipes
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: It was just an adventure, just doing archeology with him and with Professor Kamp. Did field school with them and- outside of Flagstaff, Arizona for six weeks. If you want to really get to know your professor, do field research with them for six weeks. Share a bathroom with them, and twelve, thirteen other people. That’s how you get to know your professors. We all shared a bathroom- shared a single bathroom with fifteen people. That’s how you do it. If you want really great professor stories, talk with their kids too because, they had their daughter who was also an archeologist as our survey director. She grew up here, so she had all the great Grinnell stories.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Let’s see. Grinnell... I didn’t know- It hasn’t been that long since I was here so it hasn’t changed too much. The sight lines on campus have changed because they got rid of the PEC. That’s a little unnerving. But, the new gym looks nice and it architecturally coordinates well with the other new gym, which is nice and I’m- I heard that they have a lot more space for people. I figure so long as they have indoor fighting space for Dag, I’m not gonna complain or anything. I gotta support organizations that I was in.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: I do miss the live action roleplaying program, though. That was a good club. It died the way many such extra-curricular activities do: through internal drama. Couple years ago, I was digging around in the closet and I actually came across some of the paperwork for that club. That was quite hilarious. Just, it sorta gave a lot of insight into the people who were in the club and even the people who I knew were in the club before I started at Grinnell and who I was friends with through older students. It was really interesting.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Students of today, they basically, far as I can tell, Grinnell students are Grinnell students. I mean, I’ve been on friendly terms with faculty that are also alums and basically they say, it really, there is just a fundamental transformation of things, of the student body in the sixties and since then it just, there’s been certain constants that have been present and it’s really just an adaptation to overall cultural patterns. But, I have full confidence in the current student body of continuing the Grinnell tradition of general uniqueness.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: There were a lot of interesting transitions when I was attending. There was always construction while I was at Grinnell. Always. Something or another, and it was almost inevitably in the way. I had the good luck of being in Cowles Hall when they were turning the dining hall into apartment-style housing, bleh. I mean, it was a motivation to get up early along with all the other horrible things that woke me up early that year like, having squirrels loudly copulating outside my dorm room window.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: That, I- that’s a very long and strange digression, although I guess I should probably get that one down. That one, the squirrel thing is important, all right? It connects previous threads. Basically, for most of professor Whittaker’s classes you need to... he has you get in the mind of the hunter by chasing after squirrels with rubber bands and zinging them.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: They don’t mind. They’re too stupid to really be injured or anything like that, so I did the exercise and I did terrible. I hit two out of ten squirrels and squirrels just didn’t deal with it well. One squirrel threw things at me and another one, when I was trying to hit another squirrel actually urinated on me. Ever since then, the squirrels have had issues with me. They make noises- they would make noises outside my dorm room window. They would tap on the window sometimes if it was closed. I like to joke to my friends that they were always watching me.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: And then, when my girlfrie- Then when I talked my girlfriend, and now fiancée, into taking the same class with Professor Whittaker, she did the same thing and she actually set the record for accuracy in squirrel hunting with the rubber bands. It’s just, the weird part was, I went along with her and every time she hit a squirrel, the squirrel would look at me. Those things had- I think those things had issues with me. I haven’t seen much of them this trip, but they’re probably watching. Right now. I’m pretty sure of that.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Let’s see. Favorite... things I really liked. I really enjoyed taking Roman Art and Archeology with Monessa Cummins. If I had known about her sooner I might’ve been a Classics major instead of an Archeo- an Art History or a Classics major instead of an Archeol- Anthropology major' 'cause she was, she is just something else. I mean, I probably enjoyed that class because I already knew a lot of the material. I basically knew almost everything except the Latin technical terms, so I was pretty comfortable and if I wasn’t careful, I didn’t want to make the actual Classics majors look bad so I made sure to keep my hand down ‘cause otherwise one of my friends who was a Classics major would elbow me in the ribs to stop making her look bad, which I did, and that was fine.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: So, take a Classics Art History class. That’s... Or just an Art class, something, just something that either allows you to express your creativity or engage with other people’s creativity and hopefully find your own inspiration, ‘cause the really creative classes are hard to get into. Good luck getting into an art class or a creative writing class. It’s a nightmare.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone & Brenna Ross
    Benjamin: Favorite place on campus. I don’t know. I liked- I lived off-campus for a year at 1205 Park Street, the Center for Centers now, is that what you guys call it?Brenna: It’s the CRSSJ.Benjamin: C- I like the Center for Centers better.Brenna: I like that one, too.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone & Brenna Ross
    Benjamin: That- my junior year, that was Dagorhir House. Um, I don’t- Dag House is still going on, right?Brenna: It went on, the year before last? Last year..Benjamin: Okay.Brenna: ....it wasn’t.Benjamin: OK. Well, I know the organization’s still there ‘cause I know people that are still doing it so, I’m not concerned so long as the organization is still present. That was- there was a lot of interest in- That was a good place.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone & Brenna Ross
    Benjamin: The thing about Dag, relative to a lot organizations, is that besides the fact that you’re running around with foam swords clobbering people, which is extremely appealing in and of itself, is also the fact that it, I think it does more for town-college relations than almost any other organization on campus ‘cause I made at least a half-dozen friends with townies through that organization and I’m still in touch with several of them. We even turned a couple townies into students, actually, through Dagorhir. We talked them into applying, although I’d be a little intimidated to go to college so close to home but whatever. But then again you didn’t go so far, so.Brenna: Yeah. I’m about two hours.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Yeah, that’s pretty close. So my favorite place was Dag house or wherever Dag happened to be, even if I wasn’t in good enough condition for fighting. That’s where my friends were and that’s what mattered.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Ooh, this is a tough- this is a good one. “If you knew what you know now, what would you have done differently?" I would’ve learned to study before coming to Grinnell. My first two years here were bas- were cra- insane. I just... I just jumped in head - as far as I can tell - I just, I jumped in headfirst into the shallow end of the pool, when I came to Grinnell. I was... I went to a very good high school and I was pretty near the top- y'know, not quite... I was in the top third of my class but it- I just didn’t know how to study.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Maybe it’s 'cause I was a public sch- maybe it's 'cause I was a public school kid. Maybe it’s cause I grew up in Texas. Maybe I just never needed to study, but whatever it was, that whole 100+ pages of reading a night plus reviewing plus learning how to take notes, it got to me. I did have to drop a couple classes and I did actually fail one class, given it was a.. a writing class but still. That really kind of put a rough spot on me, but I will say this: Y’know how you have college prep high schools? Grinnell is a grad school prep college.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: I- I just finished my Masters degree at the University of Minnesota and my GPA has just shot through the roof. It’s probably also because I- I’m only taking classes within my major but still, when you go from a B.. from a B- to an A that’s.. that’s significant and I definitely have to thank Grinnell for that. Definitely taught me not just how to think but how to get my stupid work done, or in some rare cases not so stupid, considering the amount of time I spent learning how to do government documents.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone
    Benjamin: Let’s see. The town really doesn’t seem to have changed in too many critical ways. It still looks like the town. It looks nice, the renovation things that they did. There was also construction in town while I was enrolled. It definitely seems to have paid off, and looks like all the nice places that I would walk by are still there. Saint’s Rest is around, Farmer’s Market. I’m just, I’m thankful for that.
  • Benjamin Cantor-Stone & Brenna Ross
    Benjamin: You need- you need to get off-campus. There’s not many reasons to get off-campus but you need to get off campus anyway, if only just to stretch yourself a little bit. And there are a couple nice peop- there’s some nice people in town, too. You just need to know where to look. But I guess that’s about... that’s about it. I hope you guys get something from it.Brenna: I think we got quite a bit. Alright.
Alumni oral history interview with Benjamin Cantor-Stone '07. Recorded June 3, 2011.